https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/ 国際結婚の最新事情を紹介するブログです！ ja 両親を説得できる!? 経験者が語る「国際結婚のメリット」6つ
【相談者：30代女性】

親に国際結婚を反対されています。近々、私一人で実家に帰って両親を説得しよう..........≪続きを読む≫

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たしかに子どもの外国語習得は各段に簡単でしょうね。


[Question: Women in their 30s]
Has been opposite the international marriage to the parent. The near future, we are going to try to convince the parents back to home by myself. As an example that it was good to the international marriage, I want to convince my parents, but do you any thing specifically I benefits of the international marriage? Kindly let me know the examples!

● benefits of international marriage heard in A. Experienced!

Nice to meet you friend It is Coco international romance expert.

This time, we have heard that it was good to a Friend was the international marriage actually! I'd appreciate it if accustomed to your reference.

● children in bilingual or may not be anything special (1)!

Extent that is also referred to as "privileges half", which, it is a famous story.

Almost all of the friends that international marriage around me, to become able to speak bilingual children is, I had to answer that it is the benefits of international marriage.

The during the marriage partner is fluent in Japanese, for life was also Japan, children only speak Japanese! People who have stayed, but in most cases, the mother tongue of the fathers and mothers, language skills of native level seems to get in without trouble, especially.

● relationship with (2) righteousness parents easier!

"Daughter-in-law foreigners" there appear to be more righteous parents or from the sense of, to a relationship that was at a distance a little.

They will look in the eye without also be or have stay out in no uncertain terms to that of the house, customs culture and that from different Japanese, that it Tsukiaeru a good sense of distance seems that many.

Just does not seem to go even so in countries custom of the country and in the frequent religious ceremonies, relatives relationship is important, some people who tried desperately in order to get admitted to righteousness parents.

This, it is an issue likely to be influenced by the culture of the destination Totsugi.

● I choose the nationality yourself (3) When the child is an adult!

The children who were born from parents who were the international marriage, dual citizenship is granted basically.

Once at the age of 20, since it is decided whether choose the nationality of either yourself, the width of the selection of the future design and dreams of the future of children is wider.

As a parent, the possibility of children that I want to maximize. That in order to carve out a better future, the choice of nationality that possible, it is a big advantage.

● there are many that you forgive (4) "culture because different" in!

Because the environment that have grown up also values ​​also, it is too different from the original, also that it going to be a fight if the Japanese people, it is not a big deal for international couples also seems there are many.

Initially, even started studying and trying to understand the culture of the country of the other party, and are together every day face every day, is not considered deeply anything, be made to accept their opponents with a broad mind seems often.

● people who are supportive of (5) child care is often!

In particular, this answer is often the person who was married to Westerners. Shows an understanding also that women work, couples are doing to share not only childcare, housework seems often.

In recent years, I think the word "Ikumen" also vogue, people who are supportive of childcare as increased also in Japanese men, but men cooperative to housework is still a minority compared to Europe and the United States.

I want to continue the life work! I want some children! The woman aiming such a balance, I is very happy.

● (6) homecoming to the big event!

In many cases, you will want to live in the country either, but then of course, "homecoming" will be the big event as overseas travel.

Parents and relatives to greet also will have me waiting eagerly. I can not feel free to homecoming, homecoming expenses also increased, but can have the opportunity to go abroad on a regular basis, and is just a homecoming, I will be a very valuable experience for children as well.

Over over over over over over over over over over

How was.

The international marriage, various problems are inherent, but there are a lot of course 's benefits.

This time, I spoke of the benefits, but the first place marriage is what you loved ones. If he a nice man what, I can be happy if you wanted with him! Also talk that, I try carefully to your parents by all means.

First, ask them known to your parents firmly the feeling that I think him!

(Writer profile)
It jumped the Japan Coco in (international love expert) / 18 years of age, Indonesia Bali to study abroad. Countless friends became friends in Bali Asia, and Australia Yes friendship over the multilateral in Europe. Since we have seen and international experience of love itself, the love realistic circumstances of friends from various countries, and more particularly to international romance and international marriage. In nature that I want to always excited, motto "Life is gambling" is. Curious anyway, novice freelance writer ready-active people anyway. Currently, a single mother of TEMPORARY. ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11929358694.html Sun, 28 Sep 2014 11:55:16 +0900 韓国人男性との結婚　ベトナムやキルギスで禁止の方針が浮上
　韓国では2000年代以降、外国人の花嫁が増えている。その多くが仲介業者のあっせんで韓国の農村部に嫁..........≪続きを読む≫

[アメーバニュース]

特定の国の国民との結婚が禁止されるなんていう制度って、ほかにもあったりするんでしょうか。


2000s and later, the bride of foreigners is increasing in Korea. Many of them are married to the rural areas of South Korea in the mediation of the broker, but the tragedy or committed suicide or been killed after she was abused from husband unending. And since the beginning of this year, incidents killed and strangled Vietnam married woman (21) husband of Korean 36-year-old in Gangwon-do is also happening. And, since 2007, "the tragedy of Foreign Wives" is I have occurred almost every year in Korea. Murotani Katsumi Mr. journalist, to explain the tragedy of Foreign Wives in Korea.

* *
Discrimination from the Korean society, waiting for Vietnam married woman you married is, violence in the home.

As a result of interviewing the 400 households that were international marriage who live in rural areas across the country 34 Korea Rural Economic Institute, about 20% of Foreign Wives replied, "We experienced domestic violence in the past year" ("Dong-A Ilbo April 19, 2012 Date "). And also threatened to be'll beat on that or are showered insulting words are ignored from the family, or forbidden to go out, his wife was beaten to the fact that were not a few.

In a survey of women and Family of Korea, Foreign Wives undergoing domestic violence as many as 70%. As cases were received in the consultation of Foreign Wives, married Korean men, South Korea KBS was pregnant twice, but Vietnam and married woman that has been forced to abortion to her husband, five years after marriage, Korean laborers (May 21, 2013) which told the real voice of the Philippines married woman that continues to receive violence.

Not knowing a word, in response to the violence from her husband in Korea lifestyle is also different, and bullied also mother-in-law and father-in-law, support groups officials of Foreign Wives, which is abuse even as the labor force further and was his wife "foreign women will be described rather than believe, myself because I was brought paying consideration, thinking the wrong that I have to love their own and "has led to violence.

Countries such as Vietnam has embarked on measures to receive a spate of incidents.

And that between the Korean government parastatal as "Vietnam Women's League", to create a system to notify the international marriage broker basic information about family structure and economic strength of the Korean men, and health status in 2010 agreed. However, effectiveness is nil for false is rampant, etc. forge documents. I came up with a policy of 50 years of age or older, or Vietnam Women's League is, to prohibit to marry Korean men more than 16 years of age difference between the year in 2012.

Not just Vietnam. Cambodia is a target by brokers "buying and selling marriage" also has taken steps "prohibited marriage with Korean men" over several orders so far. In March last year on the South Korean ambassador, Deputy Prime Minister of the Central Asia and Kyrgyzstan said, "sends an unhappy life, problems such as death has been reported in" in Korea and is Kyrgyzstan Married "Congress I said in the story that there is a need to prohibit the marriage of the Korean up and "has come out.

Contrast that answered "marriage problem multicultural families (International marriage home) is not limited to only Kyrgyz women," "happy marriage live multicultural families often" or South Korea Ambassador "(October 7 date "searchina" 2013).

I said that hotbed of tragedy what dishonesty Broken table the words of the ambassador of "problem neglect". April this year, the Korean government has imposed as a condition 14.8 million won annual income (about 1.48 million yen) or more to the Korean spouse, to learn Korean to foreigners to apply for immigrant visa due to the international marriage. However, such stricter regulations be heard also voice "to narrow the range to choose the marriage partner of men in rural areas, and only to the Kasama wedding expenses" cold and (international marriage brokers).

In fact, trader "buying and selling marriage" began in Vietnam, then ransacked the poor countries from one minute to the next, it has pioneered the market.

※ 8 July issue SAPIO2014 years ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11929356535.html Sat, 27 Sep 2014 11:55:40 +0900 将来設計を立てよう！ 国際結婚に反対する親を安心させるために
【相談者：20代女性】

両親に外国人の彼と結婚したい事を伝えたら、反対されました。「老後の事まで考..........≪続きを読む≫

[アメーバニュース]

親が言う心配も理解することが、国際結婚を認めてもらう第一歩ですね。


[Question: women in their 20s]
If you tell them you want to marry him foreign parents, it has been the opposite. It is said to be "! Think of it until old age," and is not heard me at all talk of marriage. 4 years dating, there were many things. Still, because the place where I thought it was compassion that of each other always, cultural differences also the language barrier also to come overcome, and will Fumikiro marriage finally, I want to convince absolutely, but how do I work around this problem? Do?

● Even cases that do not live at home it's not even became A. Hate.

Nice to meet you friend It is Coco international romance expert.

I'm what I want sincerely willing also important your parents to marry him!

That your parents are the words, "old age". In fact, it's also the reason why many of the causes of international divorce me this. I like still that of the other party, but there are many those who when foreign life may become bitter and in old age, care and disease was or is required, to the choice of returning home.

Even without until divorce, will he also husband and wife to a decision to each other greet the last moment at home, go ahead to the separation.

That living abroad so much, from taking a year of tough First of all, please keep in mind. It is especially when the country if care system and medical technology is not in place.

Based on the story was asked to people who were international marriage actually, you will be some advice.

● Before the parents persuade, the future design that can be relieved

If I in Japan, there is insurance and pension plans, but the circumstances differ from country to country, there 's country dont you do not work yourself to death in foreign countries.

To worry about your parents is make yourself, to ensure the "old age that can be peace of mind", or will not there is room for a little persuasion.

Your parents should have hope precisely because not able to watch the old age of you, and want to bring to live a happy old age.

How are you going to when by any chance, Remedy, at the time it was illness or injury, becomes necessary nursing care in old age, if the source of funding for retirement or to, prior to the international marriage, which is committed to check with him firmly it is important that you should.

Before you can convince your parents, First of all, please try to make a concrete plan with him!

● the trouble of old age in overseas!?

Some people may even wife suffering from illness, was a Japanese only returned to Japan, and reached the last moment as it is, did not meet with your husband, and there is trouble that has been defrauded money and goods in dementia. Partners would be traveled before, you people may even be misled Where do I to the later life.

In addition, many also reported comes those who are said meal was no problem at all when young also, and can not be helped Japanese food is to miss from the old man.

Harsh climate average temperature is too cold or too hot, for those who have grown up in Japan again, you're free to become a burden to the imagination more than take a year.

Living abroad from taking a year, will encounter a variety of problems when more young. Even if I want to return home immediately, international marriage money-consuming. I think in order to send a happy old age, it is wise to prepare from now also, not bad in any way.

I hope sincerely along with the favor of your parents, as you greeted a happy marriage.

(Writer profile)
It jumped the Japan Coco in (international love expert) / 18 years of age, Indonesia Bali to study abroad. Countless friends became friends in Bali Asia, and Australia Yes friendship over the multilateral in Europe. Since we have seen and international experience of love itself, the love realistic circumstances of friends from various countries, and more particularly to international romance and international marriage. In nature that I want to always excited, motto "Life is gambling" is. Curious anyway, novice freelance writer ready-active people anyway. Currently, a single mother of TEMPORARY. ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11929355182.html Fri, 26 Sep 2014 11:55:47 +0900 定職に就かない夫とでも生活できる？ 国際結婚した女性が海外で出産前までにすべきこと
【相談者：20代女性】

国際結婚をして1年が経ちます。夫は定職についておらず、フリーの観光ガイドを..........≪続きを読む≫

[アメーバニュース]

事前に準備できることは夫や家族の協力を得て備えておきたいですね。



[Question: women in their 20s]
1 year is passed by the international marriage. Husband is not for regular job, you have been a tourist guide for free, the average monthly income of the country, whereas a about 20,000 yen, there is also a month of zero if the moon to exceed. Children born so soon, it is not possible where I work, and even try to propose to his regular job to her husband, it does not seem to raise the waist and think hard. Future anxiety, we are beginning to think also that it go back to Japan recently.

What is times like that I should keep Toriezu, before birth? It is unavoidable anxiety anxiety. Please tell me!

● A. Overseas there! The future design carefully!

Nice to meet you friend It is Coco international romance expert.

If you think the future of the baby in the womb, a variety of anxiety I think you come out. Far many people make a good if prepared, the problem of money, is that you feel anxiety.

It is the story of an acquaintance of mine, there are Japanese women who suffer from two children and husband in the international marriage, does not have to steady job as well, had a full-time housewife without work.

To say a child is smaller, she is was not working, but it is no longer afford the tuition, you will not pay rent, Mamanarazu, eating is also of it tumbling to the home of her husband eventually, but strong fierce life were.

It seems to have been very hard for her sometimes there was a developing country, send the lives of local people level is a foreigner.

We were gone reversal lifestyle very different, diet, hygiene, no cooler, no hot shower, to such a harsh life.

The problem was more than anything else, that there was no money even for changing to Japan. Also, your parents are already dead, so was no relatives to rely on Japan, it was not possible to select that Japan return to her.

Even married example, there is abroad, do not forget absolutely that he is a foreigner. And let's always be stored only go home to Japan at the time of Moshimo.

● firmly! Family and relatives and friends of Japan relationship

It is better it is to your appearance here and there in the people who are living abroad long, families that rely on Japanese friends also does not have.

Is good if there is nothing wrong, but that it also, or suffering from a disease and take a year, there should not be, but the baby has been born in or have suffered from a disease, and who is considered a return to Japan I have quite a lot also. At that time, whether there are people who rely on Japan, I big difference in or not.

Even people who have not seen for many years, someone might have thought me you from Japan that far away. Even from abroad, such as in the summer greeting and New Year, let's tell the state of your even a few times a year.

● preparation of health insurance baby okay?

Preparation of health insurance do you have in place?

When you are abroad, the system is unlike procedures relationship, but it is confusing. In addition, there is quite some countries higher premiums is not comparable to Japan.

In fact, among those who have an international marriage, there are many people that even if the child was born, did not spend health insurance to children, but it is very dangerous, is not it.

I do not know sudden illness, accident, or injury, when what happens. Can not go to the hospital because there is no money, in it is not already. Also for precious precious children, let's firmly ready for health insurance!

Over over over over over over over over over over

First of all, in the direction of go live with your husband like, which is also the father of the baby, let's discuss that money thoroughly. Return to Japan is a last resort.

Unwilling to have a real job to say how much, or if there is likely to do raising children alone income of husband-like, ready to work you also let's proceed!

Job search've had the baby, looking for nursery and babysitting is hard. By the time born, and keep as much as possible done, coral, you can start to work smoothly!

, But be careful of the your body, please do gave birth to a healthy baby!

(Writer profile)
It jumped the Japan Coco in (international love expert) / 18 years of age, Indonesia Bali to study abroad. Countless friends became friends in Bali Asia, and Australia Yes friendship over the multilateral in Europe. Since we have seen and international experience of love itself, the love realistic circumstances of friends from various countries, and more particularly to international romance and international marriage. In nature that I want to always excited, motto "Life is gambling" is. Curious anyway, novice freelance writer ready-active people anyway. Currently, a single mother of TEMPORARY. ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11929350855.html Thu, 25 Sep 2014 11:55:23 +0900 国際結婚はあり？ なし？ あり派「愛に国境はない」なし派「言葉の壁は高い」
最近婚活がブームになっていますが、皆さんは、国際結婚は考えたことはありますか？
文化の違いや言葉の壁..........≪続きを読む≫

[アメーバニュース]

■なし派の意見
・「手続きが面倒」（男性/26歳/電機）


さすがに好きな人と結婚するなら手続きの煩雑さは障害にならないでしょう。行政書士さんに代理人を頼めば手続きはすべてやってくれるし。


Konkatsu has been booming recently, but everyone, is there anything that was considered international marriage?
There is also anxiety factors such as language barriers and cultural differences, but is now of global society, resistance might be gone too. So, I asked for those unmarried, whether there is international marriage this time.

Q. International marriage You There? Without You?

65.0% Yes
35.0% without

Answer more than half of that there is international marriage! Again, I might be gone less relevant differences in the era of nationality now. Or, ...... herbivorous be because is has increased in Japan boys? Let's take a look at why.

■ opinion of school there

• The "does not matter. Nationality that you think should do with someone who I think want to get married" (female / 26 years / retail)
· "I think I think that there is also a cultural difference, but if you can respect each other, it's Ali" (Male / 35 years old / Information · IT)
· "Welcome rather" (Female / 28 years old / etc.)
• "I think it has become a global era, and to marry people of other countries also thing natural" (female / 38 years / information · IT)
- "People who are married like the culture and personality of each other because many" (Female / 33 years old / etc.)
• "I think that there is no border in Love" (female / 32 years / medical and welfare)
• The "not related to nationality to become like" (Male / 23 years / retail)
• "I think if people who are fit to each other, and no problem nationality" (female / 32 years / medical and welfare)

And to love people, and qualifications passport do not need anything! Even people anywhere in the country, the other party I'm what you want to be with people who fell in love.

Let's take a look at the opinions of no faction.

■ opinion of no faction
• "not speak a foreign language" (Male / 31 years old / wholesale trading company)
• "I think the difference in the values ​​and tough after all" (Female / 26 years old / etc.)
· "Likely to struggle in terms of language and culture" (Male / 25 years old / organizations, public corporations and government agencies)
· "Not leave the local be lonely" (female / 32 years / medical and welfare)
· "Procedure is cumbersome" (Male / 26 years / Electric)

When it comes to marriage, opinion realistic that ...... seems puzzled cultural differences were seen many because not live together. In addition, but it is where the language barrier is also anxious anyway.

If you fell in love with foreigners, it will have a good idea anyway surface, the bad side. But, there good side, bad side is the same thing even fell in love with the Japanese. Even if there is a language barrier and culture, it might be that they do not hesitate to get married Anyone who mind defintely fit.

(Statement Yasui Kumiko)

Investigation period: 2014/8 (Fishers research)
Subjects: society men and women
Number of valid responses: 315 reviews ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11929343877.html Wed, 24 Sep 2014 11:55:19 +0900 ジゴロ業で収入GET！ 定職に就かないインドネシア人彼氏との付き合い方
【相談者：20代女性】

同棲して1年ちょっと経つインドネシア人の彼氏がいます。彼氏は、バリ島でフリ..........≪続きを読む≫

[アメーバニュース]

インドネシア男性は定職に就かないも多いの? だとしたら国際結婚するのは厳しいのかな?


[Question: women in their 20s]
There is a boyfriend of Indonesians goes by a little one year has cohabitation. Boyfriend, I have a free guide in Bali, but there are variations also earn, I have savings or financed by me. Even though as a guide for free, we have that over a voice to tourists on the street, got a referral fee to be performed by him to beauty and shopping, it is!, Drink until the morning at the club sometimes.

And, during this time, and I have discovered, but you can sleep with female customers, it seems to be or go out with female customers of repeater, we Toritsuzuke also contact. Once you've said, is something like a gigolo. To say how much "such a thing, it is! Stop anymore," you said, "It is because of money. Most important thing because it is you, another woman because I only money purpose," you do not seem me stop. In fact, there is also a month that you can live in the only income of the boyfriend, I do not complain to there.

But, when the female customers are coming, may or may not come back to the house for many days, mind will become wracking. How will we should break up already?

● How to tailed regular job immediately A., And decided break up!

Nice to meet you friend It is Coco international romance expert.

In Indonesia, the free guide I think you have been hanging around on the roadside. The hospitality as host women tourists, but some people called "Gigolo" get the money and goods, but it was the people who have a "guide of the free" seriously Among.

With or take money out trick to try the business and marriage fraud, together, "Gigolo" We do not cut off after the trouble. If you open the guide book, the better and more calling for attention, it is the story famous in Indonesia.

Or not returned to borrow to say I do not know how he will do they obtain the reward from the female tourists, but because you must return the money, their own things that were out of money because of business and marriage the reason for or have made it is, is a splendid fraud.

It was well aware that it is a fraud, or assign someone to the regular job, let's decided to break up if you still can not stop me!

● Some people were in sore eyes to believe the gigolo husband!

There is also a home while know that my husband is a gigolo, wife does not work, has been living with the money her husband has been taken cheated from female customers.

However, it's earn money as a gigolo Among young, it will become difficult to come take a year. It is a story that is often also the case of the worst money husband comes earns gradually helicopter, that get lost in the Roto family.

It is too late to have been married, children in from birth. It does not work, such as fraud, it is! Able to eat a lifetime. If you going to continue dating, let's make a future design firm with him!

● How to check the love!? Not work is the end result?

Japanese women or are dating gigolo, are married, the rising was confirmed that "he is not you're going out with me in the money digger" and.

It is a story that was in fact, but in order to want to be sure it is not a money digger, that he is willing to really love, regardless of life in the only income of the husband is a gigolo is also difficult, it was the absolutely work There was a Japanese woman who suffers from two children without, was make ends meet with less money. His is a Japanese comes out to work, income is more than my husband, it is because no longer know whether the money digger, and whether they really loved.

The family, now I can not even be income of the husband is reduced, it is no longer afford the rent, to attend to school children. In order to confirm the love, I got up to involving young children.

In order not to celebrate the ending helpless, let's firmly secured to a stable income. Even if you are not married, is it that live abroad, there should be something even anxiety.

Once you become a sudden illness? Once you it is urgent that we must go back to Japan anyway? Important thing than the confirmation of love, is to ensure the life safe and healthy.

Without a steady income to the husband, let's consider how to get the income that you have a stable!

(Writer profile)
It jumped the Japan Coco in (international love expert) / 18 years of age, Indonesia Bali to study abroad. Countless friends became friends in Bali Asia, and Australia Yes friendship over the multilateral in Europe. Since we have seen and international experience of love itself, the love realistic circumstances of friends from various countries, and more particularly to international romance and international marriage. In nature that I want to always excited, motto "Life is gambling" is. Curious anyway, novice freelance writer ready-active people anyway. Currently, a single mother of TEMPORARY.
]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11927221889.html Tue, 23 Sep 2014 16:01:34 +0900 嫁ぎ先は大家族！ 結婚したインドネシア人の旦那家族とうまく付き合う心得3つ
【相談者：20代女性】

インドネシア人と結婚が決まりました。付き合っているときから、色々な親戚宅へ..........≪続きを読む≫

[アメーバニュース]

インドネシア人は人口が多いですから、日本人女性との国際結婚も増えていきますね。


[Question: women in their 20s]
Married to Indonesians was decided. From when you are dating, were taken to various relatives home, but you often hear relatives relationship is tough when you get married. Sometimes Japanese is fluent him, I can not speak Indonesian there yet.

In order to get along relatives relationship, please tell me if you have any advice.

● advice from A. Experience! Relatives socializing point in Indonesia.

Nice to meet you friend It is Coco international romance expert.

Married Indonesians around me, I tried to listen to people who are doing well relatives socializing!

● (1) events that, of course, to an appearance without anything!

Ms. H "always, even when there is nothing, it was not every single that they come to visit the house on a regular basis when the event of something" and. It seems has continued ever since married, you said it,'s the secret to getting along with relatives a lot.

I love that you put a face to a friend's house or relatives home anyway, and I always Indonesians, are also welcome visitors. It's captured the act of due to see the face without anything, and a sign of feeling thinks cherish that person, and that is care.

Conversely, when I state for a long time, it does not show their faces, they do not even contact, it is said, "nose high", and it will become more and more estranged. Words, even if not through well, It is good to be mindful that by the house often.

● distance is shortened at once (2) in "? Eat!"

"Always, never misses that you invite to be!" Go to eat "rice, to eat together in the person of relatives me closer to home" to be to both the food, A's that is, because Japanese it told me that it came to me getting closer to their own, which has been shunned and.

In Indonesia, when he eat something, always, be a voice credit to be "? Eat together" has been a courtesy. And I put a voice even to people who do not know that you sat next to in the cafeteria.

Be to a meal together, the other party also might be willing to open your heart. It is not thought that something Toka, a favorite food of the opponent is difficult, let's invite a smile anyway!

● Let's underwriting kindly relatives that you are in trouble (3)!

Mr. K called "had been raised or to dwell many years the brother of her husband that enables you to sponger children of relatives who have lost their jobs, came out to the migrant." Goodness of that caring is received, it seems to have come to be adored from relatives.

People in Indonesia, or lost their jobs, that there is no place to live I natural to become indebted to the home of relatives. Someone of relatives, come say, "Let me live in a house" suddenly, you might be surprised for the Japanese, but there'll attend willingly.

Indonesia "spirit of mutual aid" is rooted. Time myself in trouble, I do not know be in a position to ask for help to someone. Do not forget the spirit of give and take, It is good to be'll help when it is raised to help.

Over over over over over over over over over over

Would How was. I heard the experience actually is the advice of relatives socializing. It would be greatly appreciated if you can refer to.

I think relatives relationship and marriage in a foreign country, whether many also be confused, but I please spend a happy day!

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It jumped the Japan Coco in (international love expert) / 18 years of age, Indonesia Bali to study abroad. Countless friends became friends in Bali Asia, and Australia Yes friendship over the multilateral in Europe. Since we have seen and international experience of love itself, the love realistic circumstances of friends from various countries, and more particularly to international romance and international marriage. In nature that I want to always excited, motto "Life is gambling" is. Curious anyway, novice freelance writer ready-active people anyway. Currently, a single mother of TEMPORARY. ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11927221119.html Mon, 22 Sep 2014 11:55:42 +0900 関根麻里と結婚のK　活動拠点は日本だからと脱韓流婚を提案
　挙式当日の8月24日午前10時半、雅楽が鳴り響くなか、中袴姿の新郎・K（30才）に続き、白無垢姿の..........≪続きを読む≫

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関根麻里とKとの結婚をこのタイミングで振り返ってみたい


10:30 August 24 the day of the wedding, amid Gagaku resounds, Following groom · K medium hakama figure (30 years old), bride Mari of pure white dress is figure showed up in Tokyo Akasaka Hikawa Shrine main shrine .

35 people relatives of the bride and groom, and friends attended the expression. I thought it was would be to have shed tears of large (61 years old) father Sekine Tsutomu that doting Mari, but a smile from beginning to end, while embracing the thought of Bankan, and blessed the departure of his beloved daughter.

Futari December 2009, we started dating in the wake of co-star in the radio program Mari chaired personality. However, there were twists and turns before marriage.

For about two years from January 2011 "First, K-san went to the military service is an obligation of Korean men, has been forced to live separated for.

After finishing military service, K-san is to resume singer activities in Japan, dating two men I came to light, but also voice media of many pointed out the difficulty of international marriage in Korea and Japan, and Worries it was asked "(entertainment parties)

In fact, view of marriage is quite different in Japan and South Korea.

Parent, family of butt in the marriage of "Koreans in general, in the case of men to marry in particular, not a few cases the opinion of the mother is an absolute, become broken off and is opposite to the parent. Besides military service There is also a duty, in Korea the idea of male chauvinism remains deep-rooted, I'm a natural woman is the make a man "(in Korea journalist)

However, wedding and K Mari this format of the Japanese-style. Acquaintance of K is this talk about this.

"It seems to have been a proposal from Mr. K. He" activity base of their own because it is Japan, I will give an expression in Japan "First I. So I'm like I called relatives from Korea"

De-Korean marriage that was realized by the chivalrous groom. It would have seemed inconceivable that it from someone's point of view Tsutomu Mali and kit.

That said, "diet bad eating people superiors to put the chopsticks," "woman must not be your cupbearer to men outside of the family", such as the Korean men there are a lot of law that can not be considered in Japan married life with.

It's a healthy Mari always smiling, but it must have been feeling the anxiety I'm sure in my mind. Marriage eve, my mother went out to walk the dog that is the daily routine along with Mari. To breast the thought of Bankan, and probably encouraged her gently also mother last night with daughter marrying - when the talk animatedly about 1 hour.

※ 11 the September 2014 Seven women ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11927163012.html Sun, 21 Sep 2014 13:34:38 +0900 30なんて一番若い！「ニューヨーク婚活留学」が楽園らしい【後編】
今や婚活も海を渡る時代！　日本男子の草食化が叫ばれて久しいですが、内がダメなら外へ。みなさんは“婚活..........≪続きを読む≫

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「婚活留学」という考え方があるとは知りませんでした。

Era Konkatsu also across the sea now! It is a long time herbivorous of Japanese boys been advocated, but out of which if not. Do you have that "study abroad Konkatsu" everyone was thinking?
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■ 3: is the wife ideal Japanese
"Asian looks young, and manners also solid with clean. Because there is Okuyukashi is and Shyness is Japanese women, foreigners" Asiaphile "(Asia specialist)," Japa-only "(the Japanese professional) you have a lot of "
The more there are also ethnic jokes "cytometry to wife the Japan women and heaven of this world, to live in the house of the UK wind, receive a salary of Americans while eating Chinese food" called. Ladies and gentlemen, is the advantage worldwide.

■ 4: Princess treatment at any time
As in "the Bible, man is very important to his family. The" Honey also married, it is not tired? "And you treat me like a princess. Husband and wife to enjoy the dating let go a month camp children Irasshaimasu.
Minute is not through words, Yomeshuto relationship also I might not be complicated if international marriage "
If the woman, what forever should be a princess treat the men. Husband to Notamau Nante "bath! Rice!" Is supposed to be not as soon go home to NY here.

■ 5: I made ​​for myself after all
"Good men, even if not found, it can be their favorite. Anyone does not care about no matter what it does here. Overseas is good!"
From being inspired by the different again and study abroad go by students, the charm of unique study of adults. If there is time and money, let's go out a few months away and flat.
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Jirka Matousek ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11927162071.html Sat, 20 Sep 2014 13:31:47 +0900 アジア圏が狙い目!? 専業主婦になりたい婚活女性にオススメの海外エリア
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海外婚活を考えています。どちらかというと家庭的なタイプで、結婚したら専業主..........≪続きを読む≫

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アジア圏で富豪と結婚して海外で専業主婦、っていう選択肢もありですね。



[Question: Women in their 30s]
I believe overseas marriage hunting. It is a dream in the homely type and say either, is to become a full-time housewife After you get married. I know you can depend on the person, but have you type like me, chemistry that seems to be good men and of which country?

In carrying the marriage hunting, so let me be helpful, please let me know!

● A. Housewife type is recommended to Asia!

Nice to meet you friend It is Coco international romance expert.

As you say, it is different depending on the person, but the female image obtained by the country is different. If it is assumed that let me explain roughly, in Europe and the United States, uke is a good rule of thumb in Asia mainly housewife type homely women who want to continue the Barbary work after marriage in the career woman type.

To say that Asia, two-income household is also increasing in developed countries, including Japan, women will continue to work even after marriage and childbirth has been increased, and men who wish to dual-income recession may also affect that of a growing number is the status quo.

Compared to it, still, the people of Southeast Asia, have been cases that enter the home if you married have been a normal, if there is a problem with the economic, women become housewives there are many women.

Because as is clear and is a housewife type Himself, It might be a good first step and try to start a marriage hunting in Asia!

● Is it possible to put up with men overbearing husband!?

Also my friend, what women who married in Southeast Asia will buy, but relatively, male chauvinistic husband seems to often.

Women as in Japan a decade ago, women who walk down one step behind the men asked, called, fell in love with muscularity that can you go anything pull also are many, but with the life force and economic power for women, there are cases where dissatisfaction "bindings strong" and such a "sulk if you do not listen to say" even came out, does not work.

It seems to be good chemistry is better with women of type "not live as he does."

● the importance also economic power! Housewives also be a distant dream

If a homely woman, we recommend Southeast Asia, but it is economic power not forget. Because it is Southeast Asia, there is a large gap between the rich and the poor still, there are some cases where it wanted a full-time housewife, must be a two-earner forced.

Is better still if both parents work, there are many families rely on income of wife all of the living expenses. Possibility that Japanese is a foreigner becomes a wife, if those of Japanese women are often the income is more, would have been relying becomes larger.

In the worst case, you have to actually talk about my wife, my wife, come earn even housework also pressed against the Japanese wife everything, husband called, has become a presence, such as a child. When matchmaking, including the economic power of men, let's assess the opponent!

So blessed in meeting with people nice. Also, if you have something, but please contact us at any time!

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It jumped the Japan Coco in (international love expert) / 18 years of age, Indonesia Bali to study abroad. Countless friends became friends in Bali Asia, and Australia Yes friendship over the multilateral in Europe. Since we have seen and international experience of love itself, the love realistic circumstances of friends from various countries, and more particularly to international romance and international marriage. In nature that I want to always excited, motto "Life is gambling" is. Curious anyway, novice freelance writer ready-active people anyway. Currently, a single mother of TEMPORARY. ]]> https://ameblo.jp/5931kekkon/entry-11927156998.html Fri, 19 Sep 2014 13:18:35 +0900