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<title>どこか変だよ日本人</title>
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<description>このブログは在日外国人による、日本人への感想を書く日記です。お暇な方はどうぞご覧ください。</description>
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<title>(Ⅲ) 教育システム</title>
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<![CDATA[ <p>日本とアメリカの教育制度は、全然異なります。</p><p>アメリカの高校、大学ではテーマが定められた、討議のクラスが大きな比重を占めて、実施されています。そこでは生徒たちは、質問を自由に言い、意見を述べ、先生に反論することすらあります。</p><p>高校生は学業だけでなく様々な行事・スポーツ活動に参加し、場合によってはパートタイムの仕事を</p><p>持っている場合もあります。<br>大学生たちはアカデミックな教育課程の学習のみでなく、社会活動への参加、学校単位での大学として</p><p>受け入れられる様々な活動への参加、をおこないます。<br>日本では中等教育・高等教育は規制がとても厳しいと言えます。生徒たちは正規の学校時間以外に、</p><p>数時間を大学入試に備え、補習をさせられたり、塾・予備校通いに費やします。良い大学に入ることが</p><p>良い仕事・生活を得るための鍵なのです。このように、高校での生活は厳しいものがあり、その結果として</p><p>彼らは有名な良い大学に進学します。ひとたび大学に入ってしまえば、彼らは安心して、大学生活を</p><p>エンジョイ出来るのです。多くの学生はアルバイトに旅行にと、時間を使います。</p><p>なぜなら、大学を卒業して、社会に入り就職すると仕事の関係で、殆ど自分の自由な時間が</p><p>持てないからです。<br></p><br><p>原文―――――</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0mm 0mm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">III. Education System<br></font></font></span></b></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">The educational system is <country-region w:st="on">Japan</country-region> and <place w:st="on"><country-region w:st="on">America</country-region></place> is very different.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>American high schools and universities foster a discussion-oriented class in which </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">students are free to ask questions, express their opinions, and even refute the teacher.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">High school students are involved in many activities, sports, or even have part-time </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">jobs.</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Universities emphasize not only academics, but also the participation in community</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">and school-based activities when considering acceptance into the university.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>In <country-region w:st="on"><place w:st="on">Japan</place></country-region>, junior high and high school is very rigorous.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Students spend several hours </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">after the regular school day attending extra school and studying in order to prepare </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">them for the university entrance exam.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The acceptance into a good university is key in order to get a good job and to have a </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">good life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Thus, students work extremely hard in high school so that they can get into a </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">well-known university.</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Once they enter the university, students can relax and enjoy their life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Many students </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">get part-time jobs and travel because after graduation students have little free time due to </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">the demands of their job. </span></p><br><br><br>
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<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jul 2006 10:58:50 +0900</pubDate>
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<title>(Ⅱ)コミュニケーションの手法</title>
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<![CDATA[ <p>別の相違点はコミュニケーションの方法にあります。コミュニケーションは３つの部分から</p><p>構成されていると言われています。その割合はアメリカでは、<strong>会話で使われる言葉（<font color="#ff0000">７</font>％）</strong>、</p><p><strong>声の調子（<font color="#ff0000">３８</font>％）</strong>、それから<strong>ボディランゲージ（<font color="#ff0000">５５</font>％）</strong>と言うことです。</p><p>コミュニケーションの実に９３％もの部分が言葉以外の部分によると言うことは大変興味のあることです。</p><p>日本人とアメリカ人とではこの割合が異なってくるようです。</p><p>アメリカ人はコミュニケーっションで直接に伝えるニュアンスに重きをおきます。</p><p>例えば、アイコンタクトであり、ジェスチャーもまた重要です。友達に会話するとき、家族と会話するとき、</p><p>上司であるとき。アイコンタクトは相手の話の自分に興味があるかないかを表現する上での相手に対する</p><p>サインになります。</p><p>相手のコミュニケーションが直接的で、そして話の方向がはっきりしていると、人は反応しやすいものです。</p><p>誰かの話に共感の意を表すときは、アイコンタクトを維持することと同時に硬い握手もまた大切です。<br></p><br><br><br><br><p>原文―――</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0mm 0mm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">II. Communication Styles <br></font></font></span></b></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Another aspect of culture is the style of communication.</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Communication is made up of three components:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Words (7%), Voice Tone (38%), </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">and Body Language (55%).</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It is interesting that 93% of communication is based on the things people do not say.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Japanese and American culture express these aspects in different ways.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Although </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Americans value directness in communication, eye contact and gestures are also </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">important.</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>When a person is talking to a friend, family member, or boss, eye contact is used as a </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">sign of respect and that the person is interested and listening to what the other person is </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">saying.</span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>People respond when communication is direct and the main point or direction is </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">very obvious.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>When greeting someone, a firm handshake is necessary as well as </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">maintaining eye contact.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>In contrast, <country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />Japan uses a more indirect way of communicating.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">In meetings, people tend to circle around the point and not make any definite </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">agreements.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>When speaking with a person of higher rank, it is not polite to show eye </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">contact. The greeting style is a bow and the lower the bow means the greater respect </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">shown to the other person.</span></p><br><br>
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<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jul 2006 17:42:52 +0900</pubDate>
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<title>I. Individualist vs. Collectivist Culture（個人対全体）</title>
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<![CDATA[ <p>―私の目から見た、と言うよりアメリカ人共通の、日本人そして日本の社会と私たち</p><p>アメリカ人そしてアメリカ社会との違いを書いてみました―<br></p><p>(Ⅰ)個人対全体　</p><p>　日本とアメリカの文化の違いの一番大きな点は、社会が全体か、あるいは個々人か、いずれかを</p><p>尊重するか、と言う点にあると思います。<br>アメリカはかなりの程度で個人主義的な文化といえます。同時に創造性と人々の間の競争原理が重要視</p><p>されます。学校では生徒たちは学業で優秀な成績を収めるために努力し、また学業と同時に課外の学生</p><p>生活でも認められるように努力します。学生たちは常に他の同級生と｢差別化｣されるように努力します。<br>さらに、ビジネスマンの場合は会社で自分個人の能力を高めることに注力し、同僚との連帯義務にあまり</p><p>こだわりません。むしろ同僚は会社での自分の昇進の妨げになる可能性のあるものと考えています。<br>一方、日本は全体主義的な文化ですから、そのなかでは全体の目的が個人の目的に常に優先します。</p><p>グループの中での協調がひじょうに重要になってきます。会社では、社員は協力して仕事をします。</p><p>仮に仕事が終わらないうちに退社するものがいれば、同僚たちは彼を蔑視します。</p><p>なぜなら全員でその仕事に協力して取り組むべきと言う信念を持っているからです。<br></p><br><br><p>――原文</p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0mm 0mm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US"><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">I. Individualist vs. Collectivist Culture <br></font></font></span></b></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">One of the main differences between Japanese and American culture is the degree to which the society focuses on the individual versus collective achievements.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><country-region w:st="on" /><place w:st="on" />America is a highly individualistic culture and values creativity and competition among people.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Students in school strive to be the best in their class and desire to be recognized </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">for their accomplishments both in school and in extracurricular activities.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Students want to be different from the other members in their class.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>In addition, businesspersons seek to advance themselves in the company and do not consider the </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">obligations to their co-workers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Their colleagues are viewed as a possible hindrance to </span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">moving up in the company.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">   </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>On the other hand, <place w:st="on" /><country-region w:st="on" />Japan is a collectivist culture in which the needs of the group are placed above the needs of the individual.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Harmony within a group is very important.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &quot;ＭＳ 明朝&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: JA; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>In a company, people often work together on a task.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>The group members look down upon a person who leaves early if the task is not completed, because they believe that all must work together on it. </span></p><br><br><p>次回は、「コミュニケーションの手法」について掲載したいと思います。</p><br>
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<pubDate>Mon, 17 Jul 2006 13:10:37 +0900</pubDate>
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<title>このブログに関して</title>
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<![CDATA[ <p>このブログに関して</p><br><p>このブログは在日外国人による、日本人への感想を書く日記です。</p><p>お暇な方はお読みください。</p><br>
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